What I am suggesting is that there is no such thing as time, and therefore no ‘distinctions of time’ to be illusions. Instead I am suggesting that all there is in the universe is just what we see, which is ‘matter’ existing, moving, and interacting ‘now’.
And by ‘now’ I don’t mean in a present moment which is sandwiched between a future and a past, or a present moment that if moving forwards through time. I mean ‘now’ as in what you can directly observe around you as you read this –things just existing and moving.
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because the timeless view needs no past and no future, just matter and energy to exist now, as we observe that they do, and to interact more slowly in warped space (as we apparently observe); While the time-based explanation requires the existence of an ethereal four dimensional, ‘incompletely defined’, ‘thing’ called time, that invisibly controls and records all motion throughout the universe in a mysterious and un-observed way – and that is made to pass events from an unseen and undetectable ‘fourth dimensional future’, through an infinitely thin present, to an unseen ‘past’, but at a ‘slower rate’ in warped space.
If we take the Time-based view, then first, we see time as an ‘extra dimension’, similar to a ‘track’ that spans from the future to the past, next we see events as things that travel along this ‘track’, (i.e. everything travelling forwards though time at the speed of light), and we see ‘motion’ as something that happens ‘in’, or ‘as a result of’ the workings of this ‘fourth dimension’; Finally we see this track as something that is ‘stretched’ or ‘squashed’, helped, or hindered, wherever space is warped, giving us the ‘time dilation’ effects we observe.

a bRIEF hISTORY oF tIMELESSNESS - mATT wELCOME

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